SUSPEND JUDGEMENT
Its a natural instinct. We see, we barely think, we automatically judge. You do it, your parents do it, I do it. & we gotta stop that shit, or atleast train our minds to do it less and less. Many people have been through millions of experiences that have made them who they are today and we are so quick to judge that we tend to miss out on any future involvement with them. It's crazy, I think of the friends I have and how opposite we are, I actually don't have many friends that are artists or into graffiti (unless I got em into it), but a lot of my friends are beautifully different. I tell em about what I am into and vice versa (together, we grow!![check TIP #10!]) I have definitely judged them at first without any notion and to think... the amazing friendships I have now that I would of missed out on!!! So that is a definite SOLA lifestyle, to accept people, to talk to them before making your mind up about them and their image. Gotta give everybody that fair chance. Nobody is the same and this is what keeps humanity beautiful.